1. Who will hold it? Anyone who has the sentiment and impetus. This could be sister, friend, colleague, expectant mum herself or even her partner.

2. What sort of baby shower? All female events are the norm but mixed parties are becoming more popular. You can theme the day and games with prizes or just have a good old-fashioned get together. For more ideas, visit my baby shower story.

3. When to hold your baby shower? The most popular time is sometime during the last three months of pregnancy. By now she will have been pregnant for over six months and be getting quite large and uncomfortable. She may also be overwhelmed by the anticipation of meeting her baby, so having an event dedicated to them both can feel really special. To be on the safe side plan at least 3-4 weeks before the due date.

4. How much to spend? Minimal budgets are not a problem. Hold the shower at someone’s home and ask guests to bring a bottle or dish. Alternatively, visit a café or restaurant but make it clear prior to the event who is paying.

5. Who to invite? If throwing a surprise event, enlist the help of her partner or another family member to ensure no one it missed.

6. Where to have it? The easiest, cheapest and most popular location is the home (or garden) of the host, but other options are restaurants, bars, cafes, gardens, public parks, spas, hired halls, function rooms or hotels. Bear in mind the proximity for guests and available parking or public transport.

7. What gift to give? These can range from clothing, to a keepsake, to a cot for the nursery (depending on your generosity). To avoid unnecessary duplication of gifts, suggest the mum-to-be makes a wish list which can be managed by the host. Visit the Natural Baby Shower shop for natural gift ideas.

8. When to invite? Get the word out well in advance and ask for an RSVP by a certain date to help with your arrangements. Printed cards are traditional and make a great keepsake to the day.

9. What food and drink? As there will be at least one expectant mother present, it’s a good idea to stock up on low and non-alcoholic drinks. Food-wise, you can stick to easy nibbles straight from the packet, or get more creative and work it around the theme if you have one.

10. Any extras? Bring some disposable cameras. Also, get a ‘motherly advice’ journal, which is passed around among the guests for them to write their own words of encouragement or advice. For more information and ideas, see the FAQ’s.

If your query is not answered there, feel free to e-mail us and we will try to help.